Our People

Meet the Team

Kerry Tidman founder smiling with a forest background, blonde hair

Kerry Tidman

Founder, Therapist & Coach

Kerry Tidman is a mum of 3 and a grandma. She is also a trauma-informed holistic therapist, coach, TEDx speaker, and published author with a deep-rooted mission to create spaces where D/deaf, disabled, and neurodivergent people can heal, grow, and belong — exactly as they are.

As a deaf, neurodivergent, and care-experienced woman, Kerry's work is shaped by lived experience and delivered with fierce compassion. Her approach blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eastern philosophy, psychological safety, and the Japanese art of Kintsugi — seeing beauty in what has been broken and repaired with care.

Kerry began her journey working in the NHS and healthcare settings, supporting people through complex trauma and emotional overwhelm. She's now the founder of The Belonging Dojo CIC, and a designated Safeguarding Lead at Martial Arts Success Schools founded by her husband in 2008 — where she also holds a black belt and teaches martial arts using the values of honour, courage, and self-awareness.

She worked as a school counsellor for three years in a secondary school in Sandwell, is an Advanced Bionics mentor, and frequently delivers training, talks, and therapeutic support across education and community spaces. Kerry is the author of How Do You Deaf?, published with AVID Language, and was named Black Country Women's Aid Woman of the Year 2024 for her commitment to advocacy, identity, and inclusion.

Her approach is holistic, person-centred, and unapologetically different. She doesn't just deliver services — she walks beside people on their healing journey, helping them rediscover the gold that's always been beneath the noise.

Kerry Tidman with Duckie the therapy dog in the therapy room

Duckie

Therapy Dog & Chief Comfort Officer

Duckie is our resident therapy dog and a very important member of The Belonging Dojo team. She brings calm, warmth, and unconditional presence to our therapeutic space — and she has a way of making people feel safe that no words ever quite can.

Like many of the people we support, Duckie is also deaf. She navigates the world through visual cues, trust, and connection — a living reminder that difference is not a barrier to belonging, and that communication goes far beyond words.

Duckie attends sessions with Kerry and has a remarkable ability to sense when someone needs comfort. She doesn't judge, she doesn't rush, and she never asks you to be anything other than exactly who you are.

India Tidman standing next to The Belonging Dojo banner

India Tidman

Youth Engagement & Inclusion Coordinator

India is a passionate advocate for inclusion and belonging, bringing warmth, organisation, and real-world experience to The Belonging Dojo. She co-hosts youth workshops alongside Kerry and plays a key role behind the scenes in administration, coordination, and ensuring every session runs smoothly and safely.

With professional experience working in education as a Learning Support Assistant supporting SEND children, as well as working within high-energy environments such as Ninja Warrior, India understands how to create spaces where young people feel seen, supported, empowered and capable. She prioritises accessibility, emotional safety, and practical support so that every child and young person can participate fully.

India is deeply committed to inclusion in action — not just as a concept, but as something felt. She believes every young person deserves to feel confident, capable, and like they belong.

Kaiden Tidman, creative assistant, wearing a black hat and smiling

Kaiden Tidman

Creative Assistant

Kaiden is a 16-year-old neurodivergent creative who brings lived insight and incredible talent to The Belonging Dojo. He has co-facilitated workshops alongside Kerry for several years when they both freelanced at Gazebo Theater and brings ideas to life through 3D printing, prop-making, photography, and media editing.

He understands what it's like to feel on the outside looking in — and is passionate about creating safer, more expressive spaces for other young people. Kaiden also co-hosts inclusive gamer nights at his family's martial arts school and is currently studying Creative Media at college.

Emma Whitehouse, Non-Executive Director

Emma Whitehouse

Non-Executive Director

Emma is the founder of Bright Path and a passionate advocate for families navigating the education system. With a background in family law and mediation, and decades of experience as a parent — including parenting a neurodivergent teen — Emma brings both lived and professional insight to the table.

She knows what it's like to fight for your child to be understood, and what a difference true connection can make. As a non-executive director, Emma provides strategic guidance and grounding support to help The Belonging Dojo stay aligned with its values.

Charlene Cotton, Non-Executive Director

Charlene Cotton

Non-Executive Director

Charlene has spent over 17 years working across Sandwell and Wolverhampton in community organisations — empowering women, supporting young people, and championing mental wellbeing. A mother of six and winner of Mentor of the Year during her time with Black Country Talent Match, Charlene is known for her honesty, compassion, and ability to lift others up.

As a Freedom Programme-trained community champion, she brings a trauma-aware lens to all she does. As a non-executive director, Charlene helps ensure our work is truly led by community voice.