The Book
How Do You Deaf?
Thriving with Hearing Loss
By Kerry Tidman · Published by Avid Language
The first book in the series — written especially for teens and young adults navigating the world with hearing loss.
This project is deeply personal. In the words of Kerry: "It's the book I wish I had growing up — when I felt alone, unheard, or like I had to explain myself just to exist in certain spaces. Now, I'm turning lived experience into something that can meet young people where they are — and remind them that they are not broken, too much, or behind."
Being deaf is just one part of who you are. But how do you deaf? That's completely up to you.
This isn't another textbook telling you how to "fix" yourself. This is real talk. Stories that make you nod and think, "That's me." Reflection prompts to help you figure out your identity, your mindset, and your power.
Because you don't need anyone's permission to own your deafness — or your life. There's no right way to be deaf. There's just your way.
"An insightful, supportive and self-reflective read for teens, adults, parents and professionals."
The Workshop
How Do You Deaf? — The Workshop
A powerful, one-hour interactive workshop inspired by the book. Designed to help young people explore identity, build self-acceptance, and develop a stronger sense of belonging.
This isn't just about deaf awareness. It's about helping students realise: you're not too much… you're carrying too much.
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Flexible packages
Workshops can be tailored to your setting, with packages available that include signed copies of the book for your school, books for individual students, and additional creative or reflective resources.
Also available
Hear Me: Deaf Identity, Bias & Belonging
Kerry's signature talk and interactive workshop for organisations, education settings, and healthcare teams — going beyond surface-level awareness into real, lasting cultural change. Delivered in person or online, tailored to your team.